Why did you choose Coaching?
You explained exactly what Coaching is all about – and then I got hooked!
How has the course of the Coaching?
In the beginning it was really hard – something new I never had experienced before. The exercises during the Coaching sessions and the many things I did alone - it was just like starting at school again. At that time I did not have a daily life – so you pushed me to get one.
I have been boosting with energy – always smiling on my way to our sessions – and back!
I got through the things we talked about with flying colors. Everything has been realistic and it was not difficult to be honest both to you and to myself.
What is the three most important things you learned?
To believe in me; I have discovered so many positive elements in me – to myself as well as to others.
Another thing is that I am no longer afraid of making mistakes . When I am in a situation it is okay to fail – everybody does it sometimes. Most of all it means that you improve in the things you did wrong; thus you don´t think so much about what you say or do – you are not so afraid of making mistakes. Now I play ball! And dreams and reality are not that far apart.
I take responsibility of my life – to family as well as friends. I realized that I can take responsibility of any situation! That I am actually looking forward to be together with my family.
What are the three biggest victories?
Firstly I don´t fear any job situation any more; have been to three different job interviews and got them all – without any relevant experience or education.
Obviously it has been a victory to get a more healthy every day life – with lots of physical training: it is important that I pay more attention to my health. Being with people that makes me grow.
Now I am together with people (family, girl friend, friends) that I care about and love. I have become better to almost everything!
Did you miss any support or follow-ups between sessions?
Firstly is was easy to take in: did not feel any pressure from you. The things I had to do became more and more a routine for me: if you had been pushing me more I think I would had enough and maybe I had quit.
I still have lots of our routines in my life which keep me healthy, inspired and happy.
Goals and plans, which were achieved and which were not?
1) Job: Hell yeah! I have achieved my goal concerning the job; I can get it and perform what I shall do.
2) Music: A little is missing; saying this I don´t mean that I did not fulfill dream. When I started with you I had given up on the dream. Now I play several times a month, still making music. Got in
contact with more people that want to help me. I got my dream back! It is 100% back – and it is this I want!
3) Economy: it is brilliant! When we met it took all my energy – thought of it every single day – it took up much, too much space!
4) Privacy: Could not wish for anything better; got the most fantastic parents and family – I found out now! The goal is accomplished! I have never loved a girl friend so much as now, never been so dead honest in a relationship before.
5) Self- perception: I feel that I am worth something – every single day! When I found out how many people cared for me and liked me. I have a lot to give to people around me – energy – lots of it! People I haven´t met for a long time are telling my friends: “Wow, how Brandi has changed in a positive direction”!
Can you describe the feeling of yourself – before and now?
I changed from being a somewhat bewildered person who did not know what he was doing, following other peoples will - to being happy and most of all positive, dreaming a lot of the future. Looking forward to discover what happens in the future! I am feeling so lucky!
What is the most important that happened to you?
The most important thing is that I tell people how much I care for them.
Did you achieve Personal ROI (Return on Investment) – time and money spent on Coaching?
Yes! That I have! Above all expectations!
How could the Coaching get better in a potential new round?
It meant a lot that it was so relaxed – the most important thing for me.
Criticism of your Coach?
Sometimes you seem a little bit too positive and have an answer for everything. It is irritating to put a question that you send back – and then I find the answer myself!
Would you like to be coached again?
YES! I feel great! Let´s meet again in half years time – maybe something new has come up that we can work on.
Anything else you want to say?
I am super glad to have met you and tried Coaching. I can only recommend others to try it if they are a bit low or are stuck in some problems. And most of all recommend Coaching because with you we only looked forward working on the positive aspect!
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